I delivered as a class lecture at the New England Baptist Theological Institute in West Bridgewater, MA on January 29, 2007.
The Purpose of a singles ministry is to draw people into a closer relationship with Christ and to develop their role in the area of service within their local church.
1. Because Singleness is Not A Sin (I Corinthians 7:1)
Objection:
It is not good
for the man to
be alone
Answer:
Genesis 2:18,
Jeremiah 16:2
This verse is
a positive not a
prohibition
Paul wishes more
were single (vs.
7)
Objection:
Prolonged
Singleness is
nothing more
than immaturity
Answer:
I Corinthians
7:2,9
2. Because the Whole Church Needs to be Addressed (Rom 12:15-16)
Objection:
Nothing
prohibits
singles from
participation
except
themselves
Answer:
That is not a
ministry
attitude
The fact is
many singles
feel left out of
their church
There is a focus
on the family
Objection:
Why divide the
Church?
Answer:
Why do we have
youth groups,
senior saints,
or Sunday
School?
3. Because Part of the Body Aches (I Corinthians 12:25-27)
Objection:
Singles simply
need to get over
their worry and
rest in the Lord
Answer:
Again, not a
ministry
attitude.
Many singles
are struggling
“…single people
struggle more
with loneliness,
depression,
anxiety, low
self-esteem,
lower
self-mastery and
are at much
greater risk of
suicide …”
http://www.christianity.ca/family/marriage/2003/07.001.html
The World
offers much
temptation
The goal is to
give attention
to the problem,
fix it, and the
result should be
a unified body
working
together.
4. Because A Vast Resource is Untapped (I Corinthians 7:32-35)
Objection:
Couples are
needed to staff
and build
ministries
Answer:
Paul Disagrees
89
million
unmarried adults
in the United
States as of
March 2004. 53
million had
never been
married. 22
million were
currently
divorced. 14
million were
widowed.
48% and
44% -
The proportions
of American
women and men,
respectively,
who were 15 and
over and
unmarried in
2000
13.3
million
- The number of
people, ages 25
to 34 in 2000,
who had never
been married;
this number
represents 35
percent of all
people in this
age group. The
total of
never-been-marrieds
among the
35-to-44 age
bracket was 6.9
million or 15
percent
13.9
million
- The number of
widowed people
in 2000
19.8
million
- The number of
currently
divorced people
in 2000
12
million
- The number of
single parents
in 2000
51
million
- The number of
households in
2000 — nearly 5
in 10 —
maintained by
unmarried men
and women.
http://www.unmarriedamerica.org/usaweek/intro.htm
Singleness
should be a time
of undistracted
service and
devotion
You already saw
the statistics.
5. Because Fellowship is A Good Thing (Pro. 27:17)(Titus 2:2-4)
Objection:
Singles
Ministries are
just over-grown
youth groups
Answer:
They don’t have
to be
What a joy it
is to have
someone who
understands
Being single in
college is
different than
being single
after college
Singles can be
of any age
6. Because God’s Church Should Support Marriage (Hebrews 13:4)
Objection:
Singles’
ministries are
just
match-making
services.
Answer:
What is wrong
with that?What
better place is
there to find a
spouse?
Within the confines of the local church, there is accountability, reliablity and a safe atmosphere to explore spiritual growth.


